(is it forbidden to have friends that arent JWs). and a lot of girls have become attracted to me from school, ive had a lot ask me out on dates, sadly i had to turn them away
so it is still an UNWRITTEN RULE, but all jw parents will never admit to it.
I read your post, and wow you brought back memories, i was in the same boat, kept turning girls away til i was 21, finally i decided, either i smarten up or i am going to be alone the rest of my life, or stuck in some boring JW lifestyle, i finally got enough nerve to tell my parents and support myself and get out of the cult, and met a wonderful girl.
im 37 now, 15-20 years later, things haven't changed much in JW land have they, every generation tells the same story. Talk about a repeat.